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FOLIO MARKS ALLOCATION SHEET
A CHOSEN TEXT
THE WRITTEN ARTICLE
Shopping Addiction
What happens when shopping spirals out of control, and in some cases,
becomes an addiction? From hitting the mall with your girlfriends on a Saturday
afternoon, to holiday spending on gifts that go under the tree, shopping could be called
one of America's favorite pastimes. For most people, it means some new clothes for
work or a small trinket for a friend. For others, however, shopping is much more than an
enjoyable pastime, and in some cases, it is a real and destructive addiction that can turn
into a financial disaster. "Compulsive shopping and spending are defined as
inappropriate, excessive, and out of control," says Donald Black, MD, professor of
psychiatry at the University Of Lowa College Of Medicine. "Like other addictions, it
basically has to do with impulsiveness and lack of control over one's impulses. In
America, shopping is embedded in our culture; so often, the impulsiveness comes out
as excessive shopping. Sometimes referred to as "shopoholism," shopping addiction
can wreak havoc on a person's life, family, and finances.
"No one knows what causes addictive behaviors, like shopping, alcoholism, drug abuse,
and gambling," says Ruth Engs, EdD, a professor of applied health science at Indiana
University. Some of the new evidence suggests that some people, maybe 10%-15%,
may have a genetic predisposition to an addictive behavior, coupled with an
environment in which the particular behavior is triggered, but no one really knows why.
There are certainly a lot of commonalities among shopaholics and other addicts. For
instance, while alcoholics will hide their bottles, shopaholics will hide their purchases.
Spending over budget, Often times a person will spend over their budget and get into
deep financial trouble, spending well above their income. The normal person will say,
'Oops, I can't afford to buy this or that. But not someone who has an addiction, he or
she will not recognize the boundaries of a budget. Compulsive buying. When a person
with a shopping addiction goes shopping, they often compulsively buy, meaning they go
for one pair of shoes and come out with 10. Hiding the problem. Shopaholics will hide
their purchases because they don't want their significant other to know they bought it
because they'll be criticized. They may have secret credit card accounts, too. Because
this problem affects mostly women, as alcoholism affects mostly men, husbands will all
of sudden be told their wife is RM20, 000-RM30, 000 in debt and they are responsible,
and many times, this comes out in divorce.
Impaired relationships when shopping will be happening when because the person
spends time away from home to shop, covers up debt with deception, and emotionally
and physically starts to isolate themselves from others as they become preoccupied
with their behavior.
Although widespread consumerism has escalated in recent years, shopping addiction is
not a new disorder. It was recognized as far back as the early nineteenth century, and
was cited as a psychiatric disorder in the early twentieth century. We are surrounded by
advertising, telling us that buying will make us happy. We are encouraged by politicians
to spend as a way of boosting the economy. And we all want to have what those
around us have - consumerism has become a measure of our social worth. So what
makes the difference between normal shopping, occasional splurges, and shopping
addiction? As with all addictions, shopping becomes the person’s main way of coping
with stress, to the point where they continue to shop excessively even when it is clearly
having a negative impact on other areas of their life. As with other addictions, finances
and relationships are damaged, yet the shopping addict feels unable to stop or even
control their spending. Like other behavioral addictions, shopping addiction is a
controversial idea. Many experts balk at the idea that excessive spending can constitute
an addiction, believing that there has to be a psychoactive substance which produces
symptoms such as physical tolerance and withdrawal for an activity to be a true
addiction. There is also some disagreement among professionals about whether
compulsive shopping should be considered an obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD),
impulse control disorder (like pathological gambling), mood disorder (like depression),
or addiction. It has been suggested that, along with kleptomania (compulsive stealing)
and binge-eating disorder (BED), it be viewed as an impulsive-compulsive spectrum
disorder.
Compulsive shopping and spending is like a people who "shop 'till they drop" and run
their credit cards up to the limit often have a shopping addiction. They believe that if
they shop they will feel better. Compulsive shopping and spending generally makes a
person feel worse. It is similar to other addictive behaviors and has some of the same
characteristics as problem drinking (alcoholism), gambling and overeating addictions.
It also can occur when a person feels depressed, lonely and angry. Shopping and
spending will not assure more love, bolster self-esteem, or heal the hurts, regrets,
stress, and the problems of daily living. It generally makes these feelings worse
because of the increased financial debt the person has obtained from compulsive
shopping. Shopaholics, when they are feeling "out of sorts, shop for a “pick-me-up."
They go out and buy, to get a high, or get a "rush" just like a drug or alcohol addict.
Shopping addiction tends to affect more women than men. They often buy things they
do not need. Holiday seasons can trigger shopping binges among those who are not
compulsive the rest of the year.
Many shopping addicts go on binges all year long and may be compulsive about buying
certain items, such as shoes, kitchen items or clothing; some will buy anything. Women
with this compulsive disorder often have racks of clothes and possessions with the price
tags still attached which have never been used. They will go to a shopping mall with the
intention of buying one or two items and come home with bags and bags of purchases.
In some cases shopaholics have an emotional "black out" and do not remember even
buying the articles. If their family or friends begin to complain about their purchases,
they will often hide the things they buy. They are often in denial about the problem.
Because they cannot pay their bills their credit rating suffers, they have collection
agencies attempting to get what is owed, may have legal, social and relationship
problems. They sometimes attempt to hide their problem by taking on an extra job to
pay for bills.
There are several characteristics that shopping addiction shares with other addictions.
As with other addictions, shopping addicts become preoccupied with spending, and
devote significant time and money to the activity. Actual spending is important to the
process of shopping addiction; window shopping does not constitute an addiction, and
the addictive pattern is actually driven by the process of spending money. As with other
addictions, shopping addiction is highly ritualized and follows a typically addictive
pattern of thoughts about shopping, planning shopping trips, and the shopping act itself,
often described as pleasurable, ecstatic even, and as providing relief from negative
feelings. Finally, the shopper crashes, with feelings of disappointment, particularly with
him or herself. Compulsive shoppers use shopping as a way of escaping negative
feelings, such as depression, anxiety, boredom, self-critical thoughts, and anger.
Unfortunately, the escape is short-lived. The purchases are often simply hoarded
unused and compulsive shoppers will then begin to plan the next spending spree. Most
shop alone, although some shop with others who enjoy it. Generally, it will lead to
embarrassment to shop with people who don’t share this type of enthusiasm for
shopping. There have several ways to prevent shopping binges which is:
i) Pay for purchases by cash, check, debit card.
ii) Make a shopping list and only buy what is on the list.
iii) Destroy all credit cards except one to be used for emergency only.
iv) "Window shop" only after stores has closed. If you do "look" during the
day, leave your wallet at home.
v) Avoid phoning in catalog orders and don't watch TV shopping channels.
vi) If you're traveling to visit friends or reltives, have your gifts wrapped and
call the project finished; people tend to make more extraneous purchases
when they shop outside their own communities.
vii) Take a walk or exercise when the urge to shop comes on.
viii) If you feel out of control, you probably are. Seek counseling or a support
group such as Debtors Anonymous.
If you believe you may have a shopping addiction, discuss possible treatments with your
doctor. You may also find it helpful to get financial counseling, particularly if you have
run up debts by spending. It is recommended that you abstain from use of checkbooks
and credit cards, as the easy access to funding tends to fuel the addiction. Shopping
only with friends or relatives who do not compulsively spend is also a good idea, as they
can help you to curb your spending. Finding alternative ways of enjoying your leisure
time is essential to breaking the cycle of using shopping as way of trying to feel better
about you. Remember, you are a worthwhile person, no matter how much or how little
you own. It is recommended that spending addicts seek professional counseling or a
self-help group to deal with this problem. Addictive behaviors tend to come in clusters,
so if you have an eating disorder, a problem with drugs or alcohol, or gambling, you
may be a candidate for shopping addiction. Many communities have credit counseling
centers that will also help with shopoholism.
It is recommended that spending addicts seek professional counseling or a self-help
group to deal with this problem. Addictive behaviors tend to come in clusters, so if you
have an eating disorder, a problem with drugs or alcohol, or gambling, you may be a
candidate for shopping addiction. Many communities have credit counseling centers
that will also help with shopoholism.
FOUR REFLECTIONS
During doing this coursework, I found myself have a great experience. From this
task, I have known that I can overcome my weakness in English. By doing this task, I
learnt that English is not very hard like I assume before.
The problems I faced when I do this coursework are my packed time. I am having
a hard time as most of my coursework were due on the same date, 24 th March 2012. In
another hand, my English is not very well, so I feel hard to complete it. So, I start to
read newspaper in English like New Straits Time and The Star to find the information
that I need for my assignment. I also start to use dictionary to find meaning of difficult
words, that I cannot understand.
The most valuable lesson that I have found out while completing this course
work, is the useful internet. Internet helped me a lot in this coursework when I search
for information. It was so easy, everything at my fingertips. I also can save the time
searching for the information. I also have learnt how to read emails, emailing friends,
download and upload whatever I want from internet. Doing this task, make me realise
that time management is very important to ensure that all work we have planned to be
completed on time as scheduled. So we have to know how to arrange and manage our
work properly.
Furthermore, to improve my English skills I should not be lazy to use the
dictionary to find difficult word to understand during reading. I also shouldn’t be
ashamed to ask. I stand on the proverb, “Practise makes perfect”.
If only I get a chance to redo this coursework, I will make sure that I will manage
my time effectively and do not postpone the works and done it in the last minute. I also
do not want to bring the bad perceptions about English. Like the proverb “Don`t judge
the book by its cover,”
What we have to do is use dictionary often and read more English reading
materials. By completing this coursework, I can used more English vocabulary with
confident because I have learnt how interesting English in our live. I also feel great
when I understand the whole text I’ve read.
Lastly I would like to thank everyone who helps while doing this coursework
especially my group members, Pn Saminah and Pn Norfazidah. Without their support
this course work cannot be complete.
Yours faithfully,
Mazilah binti Ahmad
This coursework have been instructed to be done by my group on the 10 MARCH 2012.It
is under the English Language Proficiency (WAJ 3103) subject. After receiving it,I decided to
choose one of the text provided by the lecturer. In order to produce suitable ideas based on the
selected text ,I have to find four articles from the internet and any other source. After extracted
the ideas and details ,I came into a conclusion of selecting the “Addicted to the Mall”as my main
issue.
I found that this topic should be disscussed more frequent due to the rising interest among
people to choose the shopping mall as a place for recreation and leisure with friends or family
members.
a) During the on going process, there were few problems faced by me.
Firstly,due to the fact that we are teaching in different schools,it was hard to find suitable time to
sit together and have best discussion over the task given. To overcome this ,I mostly kept in
touch with my colleauges by phone,as well as e-mail too.
Secondly the time constrain that cause minor obstacles. I have to complete this coursework
within a very short period of time. Beside daily teaching life,I need to manage my time for my
family life too. Sometimes I was totally exhausted at the end of the day.
b) Beside those obstacles faced,I realised that there are some valueable lessons that I learnt
while completing this task.
First and fore most,I got the chance to improve my fluency and knowledge in English
Language.I can improve my vocabulary, grammar and even my daily conversations among
friends and people around me.
On the other hand ,the relationship between me and my friends can be strenghten .
Lastly ,the topic itself is able to educate me and my family on the new habit of shopping in
the society.
c) If only I had the chance to re do this coursework I would like to take the chance of doing
more readings and researches with that I need to have extra time to improve the draft or
task given.
Meanwhile,it would be much better if we are allowed to have a look at one of the completed
module as a guide.It can be either in a hardware or software form.
With that ,I would like to convey my greatest thanks and appreciation to all my hardworking and
cooperative colleauges and all the lecturers who make this coursework a great success.
Thank you.
Prepared by : Nor Fazidah binti Abu Talip
Alhamdulillah, thanks to the Almighty for the grace and generosity can we
complete the task English Language Profiency (WAJ 3103) has been granted. Tutorial
first day of this subject can be perceived that the lecturer is a great enough in carrying
out its responsibilities.
Before completing this assignment problems arise, many of these materials is
very difficult to understand because I was not in the teaching options and less fluent
English to speak it. Finally, I consulted with friends in a group to produce this work.
Next time create an assignment, I feel that many things that need to be changed
in me for a successful life as an educator and how to educate students to excel in the
future related to this article. Sometimes, children quickly become bored when we teach
in the class. So, why not we take them out to the mall to create happiness in ourselves.
Having completed this task, I can learn more techniques and strategies to teach
my students according to the theory that had been stated and will apply in the
classroom more effectively. If occasionally the students carried out as to this shopping
center will boost their motivation to learn in an environment of fun. However, it should
be governed solely by the teacher to make the experience gained could be teaching
and learning objectives to be served.
Indeed, this work has provided many benefits to my job as an educator. Thus,
on this occasion I would like to thank Madam Low Swee Peng English Language
Proficiency as a lecturer who has helped in producing this work. Thank you to friends
and family that also contribute ideas for the production of this task.
PREPARED BY: SAMINAH BINTI WARMEN
BILBIOGRAPHY
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